James, What a great attitude! May I recommend the book Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed, by Gary Chapman, © 1982, Moody Bible Institute of Chicago/Moody Press? It should be available through Christian bookstores. The son and daughter-in-law of a good friend of mine are going through a divorce, and the book has reportedly been the best thing in the situation. I shared (with permission) a chapter entitled "What About the Children" with a couple of rallies of R-KIDS (Remember Kids in Divorce Settlements). Marie and I have made it through 9 years, by God's grace, and have learned a lot. Best wishes!! Dan Eumurian, R.P.T. 1634 Barlow St. La Crosse, WI 54601 (608) 78-TUNER James Grebe wrote: > Hi All, > My solution to this problem, going through this as we speak, is I just gave her all I had in love except for my truck, tools, computers, my theatre organ and clothes. I feel much better doing this and starting from square one than I would trying to fight over all the stuff that I gave her out of love for her. > In my opinion the stuff is hers including the money. I have the > best thing left; ie, the ability to work at a profession I love and > create wealth once more again. After 30 years, my beloved , now soon to be ex-wife will have all that is there to constantly remind her of my toil for her benefit and m a y b e , later on she will change her mind about me and return, which would make me the happiest man on this earth . > This is how I am handling the pain. > "Tranquility Base" now under construction > ETA April, 99 > James Grebe > R.P.T. and M.P.T. from St. Louis > pianoman@inlink.com > Creator of Handsome Hardwood Caster Cups > and > Practical Piano Peripherals
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