Message for chapters

R.Moffatt & Sons Piano moffatt5@telus.net
Sat, 7 Jan 2006 13:27:48 -0700


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Hi Jeanni,

A little off the topic you are discussing, but PTG related. My husband =
and two Sons applied for associate membership to the local chapter about =
a year ago. My husband was a member from 1975 to 1985, was factory =
trained by Yamaha for one year in 1974, and has trained at least one =
member of the local chapter.  We both encouraged our boys to join the =
PTG firstly because of their positions - being responsible for and =
maintaining a very unique keyboard collection our community is so =
fortunate to have.  Secondly, as a sign of good faith and encouragement =
my husband would re-join as well.  We both agree with your statement =
that the PTG can be a very good resource, in the piano technology  field =
you never stop learning.  My youngest son was accepted as an associate =
but not so for my husband and eldest son.

When we asked why (question put to the then president of the chapter), =
he said they had a "secret ballot" and was not allowed to give a reason. =
Is this "normal" PTG procedure?  It seems to me to contradict the PTG =
"mission statement." =20

Could you, or anyone else with a similar experience, shed a little =
light? My husband Bob has asked me not to bother with this but.....I am =
curious and will hit the "send" button.

Thank you

Louise Moffatt
Calgary, Alberta
Canada

R.Moffatt & Sons Piano
2323 Lincoln Drive S.W.
Calgary, Alberta ,  Canada T3E 5G4
Phone. 403.243.0385
www.moffattpianos.com
Fax.     403.243.6821
email:   moffatt5@telus.net






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  ----- Original Message -----=20
  From: Dean May=20
  To: 'Pianotech'=20
  Sent: Thursday, January 05, 2006 10:58 AM
  Subject: RE: Message for chapters


  Jeanni wrote:

  It might take a while of attending meetings before people will respond =
to your needs.  The members may not jump up and come to your rescue just =
because you showed up. Give them a chance to see how serious you are =
about learning, to get to know you and appreciate you as a person.  I've =
seen it happen time after time..... after this "getting to know you" =
period, someone may just step forward and take you under his/her wing.  =
PTG is a great resource, but like anything else, it's up to you to make =
most of the effort to learn. =20

  =20

  =20

  Jeanni had some excellent things to say but I wanted to comment on =
this. It is always difficult to "break in" to any kind of group, =
particularly one that is exclusive and closed. Add to the mix someone =
inexperienced in the craft who is suffering perceived intimidation from =
the other expert attenders and it is especially difficult. I had been in =
the business almost 20 years before I joined my "local" chapter (80 =
miles local) so I was not inexperienced in the craft but I still felt =
intimidated and like an outsider. Not that the others in the chapter are =
snobbish, far from it. It is just the nature of things.=20

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  It would behoove all of us involved in local chapters to take steps to =
minimize this breaking in period. It has to be intentional; it won't =
happen automatically. Name badges are a very good first step. They are =
cheap and they work. It is hard to develop any kind of friendly =
relationship when every time you see someone you are embarrassed because =
you can't remember their name. A photo directory would also be good.=20

  =20

  And then old timers have to go out of their comfort zone to make =
newcomers feel friendly and welcome. This involves conversation, guys. =
That's the thing we see women doing with each other when we see their =
lips moving. ;-)  There were 2 or 3 regulars in my chapter that did this =
for me, and it works.=20

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  Dean

  Dean May             cell 812.239.3359

  PianoRebuilders.com   812.235.5272

  Terre Haute IN  47802

  =20

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