[pianotech] Gated communities

David Ilvedson ilvey at sbcglobal.net
Sun Nov 22 13:19:48 MST 2009


What I wonder is why Will's post about 2/3rds down suddenly stops having a right margin?   

David Ilvedson, RPT
Pacifica, CA  94044

----- Original message ----------------------------------------
From: "William Truitt" <surfdog at metrocast.net>
To: pianotech at ptg.org
Received: 11/22/2009 6:00:33 AM
Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities


>To the list:

> 

>Well, we have drifted into politics, but so be it for the moment.  I'll try
>not to slash anybody's tires or threaten family pets with my comments.  J

> 

>I, for one, find Ric's comments intelligent and thoughtful.  I don't think
>he has an axe to grind here or even takes any pleasure in making comments
>about America that others find negative.  I would hope that others would
>really listen to what he has to say and give it some thought, rather than
>enter into Shoot the Messenger  Mode as some have.  

> 

>It is my observation that Americans tend to have a somewhat myopic and
>self-centered view of themselves, and they expect the world to see them
>through their eyes rather than their own.  And Americans tend to forget that
>the needs and concerns of other nations and cultures are often different
>than ours, and give them too little consideration.   That they are different
>from ours does not make them wrong, or us wrong.

> 

>We live in times that are so politically fragmented and combative that we
>have largely stopped truly listening to each other, and we mistake screaming
>and accusing each other for communication.   Moving forward requires that we
>actually listen to one another and seriously consider the merits of
>another's point of view.   Democratic societies disintegrate when this
>willingness to listen ceases.

> 

>Recently, I heard a comment that I found very profound:  "The lifeblood of
>democracy is compromise.  Without it, the only thing that remains is force."
>I ask my readers to give that some thought.  Every day of our lives is
>filled with compromise, and there is good compromise and bad compromise.
>Anyone who has been married or has children knows the word well.

> 

>Like others, I have customers in gated communities.  They are good people,
>bad people, and everything in between; just like the rest of the world.  And
>the reasons they have for choosing to live in these places are varied.

> 

>Mr. Vetter makes the point that "They are people trying to escape the asylum
>we call our modern culture".   Which speaks to Ric's point that "where
>pulling away from each other trying to find an illusionary little safe house
>village where they 
>can attempt to close the outside world off.  They will start (already have
>in not a few cases) to make their own rules for society, their own mini
>governments and their own little legal, police and defense systems.... a
>tendency that will continue.  Its quite sad to see Americans finding more
>and more ways of not having more to do with each other rather than building
>inter community relations, ties... keeping the glue that has defined what an
>"American"  is fresh and holding strong. "
> 
>Each of us has the right to make the choice of where we live and the reasons
>why we live there.  Some of us choose to move to the inner city to be an
>engaged citizen trying to resurrect communities with deep problems.  Others
>move to gated communities and disengage from that part of our society that
>they see as failing, and have essentially abandoned the rest of the society,
>choosing to server their self interest only, and abandoning the problems of
>the larger culture.  This is particularly unfortunate in that these
>successful  people are able to live in these communities because they are
>intelligent and capable.  Without their participation in the larger society,
>we lack the benefit of these talents, and the society is poorer for that.
>So there is a cost to the continued health of our society when more and more
>people opt out.   If this kind of fragmentation continues, we become a
>society of US and THEM.  Indeed, we already are becoming just that.  It is
>an indisputable statistical fact that the rich are getting richer, and
>everybody else is getting poorer - more and more wealth is concentrating in
>the hands of fewer and fewer people, and that has accelerated during this
>great economic crisis that we still find ourselves in.  Who amongst us piano
>technicians does not feel assaulted by these economic changes?  It is not to
>our benefit when fewer and fewer people feel they can afford our services.  
> 
>Will Truitt
> 
> 
> 
> 

> 

> 

> 

> 

> 

> 

> 

>From: pianotech-bounces at ptg.org [mailto:pianotech-bounces at ptg.org] On Behalf
>Of Chuck Vetter
>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:14 PM
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities

> 

>Oh my!

>Where to start? Rich, white, conservatives, in gated conservatives. What
>then are rich, black, liberals who live in gated communities along side the
>rich whites?They are people who are trying to escape the assylum we call our
>modren culture. We are not victims of laissez faire policies. We, the entire
>society,  are victictims of "diversity at all cost" and political
>correctness run rampant. We are told to celebrate diversity and accept the
>most vile and immoral lifestyles as "just different'' and their values as
>valid as our own. Hugo Chavez and Robert Mugabe (see news articals today)
>are really nice people that should be understood in their own cultural
>context. That is B.S. If theyrich can afford their lifestyle, good for them.
>They are the people who frequently purchase, or donate money for expensive
>things (like pianos). Tell me about the next time you service a fine
>Bechstein or Bosey in the projects.

>Sincerely,

>Chuck Vetter

>----- Original Message ----- 

>From: Leslie Bartlett <mailto:l-bartlett at sbcglobal.net>  

>To: pianotech at ptg.org 

>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 5:20 PM

>Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities

> 

>Sorry, it seems to me a legitimate concern to people who work in
>metropolitan areas where such communities proliferate..

>les bartlett

> 

>  _____  

>From: pianotech-bounces at ptg.org [mailto:pianotech-bounces at ptg.org] On Behalf
>Of G Cousins
>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:04 AM
>To: pianotech
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities

> 

>Seriously Ric,
>How do you really feel?
>A PC (focused) society may just be one possible reason.
>Maybe move somewhere that's better. Any suggestions? (on this planet)

>IMHO Greatest country on earth, bar NONE!

>Gerald P. Cousins, RPT and Citizen of The Unites States of America

>PS Perhaps this thread could (should) move to another BB that caters to such
>topics.


>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: ricb at pianostemmer.no
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:55:11 +0100
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities

>These things are an attest to a society where pulling away from each 






> 
>other trying to find an illusionary little safe house village where they 






> 
>can attempt to close the outside world off.  They will start (already 






> 
>have in not a few cases) to make their own rules for society, their own 






> 
>mini governments and their own little legal, police and defense 






> 
>systems.... a tendency that will continue.  Its quite sad to see 






> 
>Americans finding more and more ways of not having more to do with each 






> 
>other rather then building inter community relations, ties... keeping 






> 
>the glue that has defined what an "American"  is fresh and holding 






> 
>strong.  Typically a refuge for the rather rich, and rather white 






> 
>conservatives... when the rest of the US gets poor enough... these walls 






> 
>and the people hiding inside will get ripped apart by an angry mob the 






> 
>likes of which the US has yet to encounter and evidently is incapable of 






> 
>yet comprehending.






> 
> 






> 
>I suppose one good thing will come out of the self imposed destruction 






> 
>that awaits the US.... it will show the world once and for all how 






> 
>flawed unbridled laissez faire politics is.. how fated any society 






> 
>becomes in such predictable fashion that treads that path. It leads 






> 
>ironically enough towards a breaking up of a society into more and more 






> 
>separate social entities eventually disintegrating into a short lived 






> 
>period of near anarchical condition... followed by a long period of some 






> 
>form or another of localized anything but democratic authoritarian mini 






> 
>states in which the exact freedoms so fanatically sought by those who 






> 
>originally pushed the country down that road are near totally lacking....






> 
> 






> 
>You might as well have been born in 14th century central Europe.... What 






> 
>they do to your personal business practices at present is like totally 






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>unimportant :)






> 
> 






> 
>RicB






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>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: ricb at pianostemmer.no
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:57:39 +0100
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] Gated communities

>List..






> 
> 






> 
>sorry that went to the list... it was meant to be a private note.  






> 
>Haven't used this list much lately and forget how easily it is to punch 






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>the send button a second to soon. Didnt mean to bring politics onto the 






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>list forum.






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> 
>Cheers






> 
>RicB






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> 



>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: da88ve at gmail.com
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:50:23 -0700
>Subject: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for

>    A client called and said her daughter hears several buzzing 






> 
>notes.  I just tuned it a few weeks ago and didn't hear any 






> 
>buzzing.  But I go to check it out.  Client wasn't home --  






> 
>forgot I was coming.  Fortunately there was a housekeeper who 






> 
>let me in.  I play up and down the scale, and sure enough, 






> 
>there's some buzzing underneath somewhere.  I open the bottom 






> 
>panel and see two small, rusty woodscrews lodged between the 






> 
>plate and the bottom board, one of them against the soundboard. 






> 
>I remove them, and, "Presto!" -- no more buzzing.  (Why couldn't 






> 
>they have buzzed when I was tuning a few weeks ago?)






> 
>    Suddenly client shows up (was walking the dogs).  I show her 






> 
>the screws, tell her there's no more buzzing, and she says, "Oh, 






> 
>thank you soooo much!" in a tone that's so grateful I can tell 






> 
>she thinks I came to remove the problem as a huge gratis favor, 






> 
>and that certainly I don't intend to charge anything.  (When 






> 
>they say, "Do I owe you anything?" then you KNOW you'd better 






> 
>say, "No, that's OK -- I was in the neighborhood" or something 






> 
>similar.)






> 
>       I spent a half-hour driving, two minutes finding the 






> 
>problem, ten minutes waiting around for the client, and another 






> 
>half-hour back to the shop -- 1 1/4 hours for no compensation. 






> 
>Sometimes you just get the "vibe" from the client that they 






> 
>think any buzz, noise, tinnyness, or other quirk that shows up 






> 
>within, say, a month after you tuned it, is your fault, since it 






> 
>wasn't doing that before you tuned it, and therefore must've 






> 
>been caused by your "tuning" and you should come fix it for 






> 
>free.






> 
>    Oh sure, you can say, "I have a $xx minimum billing for 






> 
>service calls," but then you lose the customer and any referrals 






> 
>from them.






> 
>    I've even done 12 hours' extra labor on a large 






> 
>reconditioning job to get rid of problems they implied were my 






> 
>fault, even though these things were not in the job estimate, 






> 
>but from their tone of voice and attitude you can tell that it's 






> 
>either fix everything for free or get into a big argument, much 






> 
>unpleasantness, and maybe even a lawsuit.






> 
>    But of course you can't deduct the value of your time on 






> 
>your tax return, since the IRS doesn't see your time as being 






> 
>worth anything.






> 
>    --David Nereson, RPT 






> 
> 






> 
> 



>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: tompiano at bellsouth.net
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:14:57 -0500
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for

>No you can't deduct that from your taxes, but those are the type of 






> 
>situations which keeps you in business. It's call good old customer service,







> 
>going the extra mile to keep someone happy. Something which is lacking in 






> 
>many business rules books these days.






> 
>Tom Servinsky






> 
>----- Original Message ----- 






> 
>From: "David Nereson" <da88ve at gmail.com>






> 
>To: <pianotech at ptg.org>






> 
>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 6:50 AM






> 
>Subject: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
>>    A client called and said her daughter hears several buzzing notes.  I 






> 
>> just tuned it a few weeks ago and didn't hear any buzzing.  But I go to 






> 
>> check it out.  Client wasn't home --  forgot I was coming.  Fortunately 






> 
>> there was a housekeeper who let me in.  I play up and down the scale, and 






> 
>> sure enough, there's some buzzing underneath somewhere.  I open the bottom







> 
>> panel and see two small, rusty woodscrews lodged between the plate and the







> 
>> bottom board, one of them against the soundboard. I remove them, and, 






> 
>> "Presto!" -- no more buzzing.  (Why couldn't they have buzzed when I was 






> 
>> tuning a few weeks ago?)






> 
>>    Suddenly client shows up (was walking the dogs).  I show her the 






> 
>> screws, tell her there's no more buzzing, and she says, "Oh, thank you 






> 
>> soooo much!" in a tone that's so grateful I can tell she thinks I came to 






> 
>> remove the problem as a huge gratis favor, and that certainly I don't 






> 
>> intend to charge anything.  (When they say, "Do I owe you anything?" then 






> 
>> you KNOW you'd better say, "No, that's OK -- I was in the neighborhood" or







> 
>> something similar.)






> 
>>       I spent a half-hour driving, two minutes finding the problem, ten 






> 
>> minutes waiting around for the client, and another half-hour back to the 






> 
>> shop -- 1 1/4 hours for no compensation. Sometimes you just get the "vibe"







> 
>> from the client that they think any buzz, noise, tinnyness, or other quirk







> 
>> that shows up within, say, a month after you tuned it, is your fault, 






> 
>> since it wasn't doing that before you tuned it, and therefore must've been







> 
>> caused by your "tuning" and you should come fix it for free.






> 
>>    Oh sure, you can say, "I have a $xx minimum billing for service calls,"







> 
>> but then you lose the customer and any referrals from them.






> 
>>    I've even done 12 hours' extra labor on a large reconditioning job to 






> 
>> get rid of problems they implied were my fault, even though these things 






> 
>> were not in the job estimate, but from their tone of voice and attitude 






> 
>> you can tell that it's either fix everything for free or get into a big 






> 
>> argument, much unpleasantness, and maybe even a lawsuit.






> 
>>    But of course you can't deduct the value of your time on your tax 






> 
>> return, since the IRS doesn't see your time as being worth anything.






> 
>>    --David Nereson, RPT 






> 
> 






> 
> 



>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: surfdog at metrocast.net
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:45:30 -0500
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for

>Hi David:






> 
> 






> 
>You are still the master of your destiny, so the choice is entirely yours






> 
>whether or not to charge for this visit.  Most of the time I would, for the






> 
>kind of reasons you give.  Sometimes I don't charge my regular, good,






> 
>longtime customers - but they always offer to compensate me because they do






> 
>place a value on my time.  My choice.  






> 
> 






> 
>One way around this is to make clear to the customer before the visit that






> 
>there will likely be a service charge if the cause of the buzzing is






> 
>unrelated to anything you did when you were there to perform your services.






> 
>If I find my missing tool inside the piano, obviously I would not charge






> 
>them.






> 
> 






> 
>It is important to remember that one of the ways our customers get their






> 
>cues on how much value to place on OUR time from US.  The irony is that if






> 
>we give away too much or charge too little, then too many people will






> 
>correspondingly place little value to it.  That is obviously the opposite






> 
>reaction to what we would hope for from our customers.






> 
> 






> 
>If the customer needs the explanation you just gave to us as to your






> 
>investment of time and loss of work time that could be compensated






> 
>elsewhere, give it to her and unapologetically, politely, and with a






> 
>friendly smile on your face, HAND HER THE BILL.






> 
> 






> 
>As for myself, I choose not to work for people who want me to work for free.






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
>My policy where there is a honest dispute is to give a little but not a lot.






> 
>Giving away 12 hours labor free for work that you did not contract for falls






> 
>in that category of giving away a lot.  If you feel bullied by the customer,






> 
>it is because you allowed yourself to be bullied. Losing that customer is no






> 
>great loss because you don't want that kind of customer.  And you likely






> 
>will not retain them as a customer after you have given everything away,






> 
>because they know they have worked you and so don't wish to face their






> 
>victim. 






> 
> 






> 
>The vast majority of our customers are nice, honest, and fair people whom it






> 
>is a pleasure to work for.  But not everyone is, and we have to say no on






> 
>occasion.  And we are the only person who can make that choice to say no.






> 
> 






> 
>Best wishes,






> 
> 






> 
>Will Truitt






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
>-----Original Message-----






> 
>From: pianotech-bounces at ptg.org [mailto:pianotech-bounces at ptg.org] On Behalf






> 
>Of David Nereson






> 
>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 6:50 AM






> 
>To: pianotech at ptg.org






> 
>Subject: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for






> 
> 






> 
>    A client called and said her daughter hears several buzzing 






> 
>notes.  I just tuned it a few weeks ago and didn't hear any 






> 
>buzzing.  But I go to check it out.  Client wasn't home --  






> 
>forgot I was coming.  Fortunately there was a housekeeper who 






> 
>let me in.  I play up and down the scale, and sure enough, 






> 
>there's some buzzing underneath somewhere.  I open the bottom 






> 
>panel and see two small, rusty woodscrews lodged between the 






> 
>plate and the bottom board, one of them against the soundboard. 






> 
>I remove them, and, "Presto!" -- no more buzzing.  (Why couldn't 






> 
>they have buzzed when I was tuning a few weeks ago?)






> 
>    Suddenly client shows up (was walking the dogs).  I show her 






> 
>the screws, tell her there's no more buzzing, and she says, "Oh, 






> 
>thank you soooo much!" in a tone that's so grateful I can tell 






> 
>she thinks I came to remove the problem as a huge gratis favor, 






> 
>and that certainly I don't intend to charge anything.  (When 






> 
>they say, "Do I owe you anything?" then you KNOW you'd better 






> 
>say, "No, that's OK -- I was in the neighborhood" or something 






> 
>similar.)






> 
>       I spent a half-hour driving, two minutes finding the 






> 
>problem, ten minutes waiting around for the client, and another 






> 
>half-hour back to the shop -- 1 1/4 hours for no compensation. 






> 
>Sometimes you just get the "vibe" from the client that they 






> 
>think any buzz, noise, tinnyness, or other quirk that shows up 






> 
>within, say, a month after you tuned it, is your fault, since it 






> 
>wasn't doing that before you tuned it, and therefore must've 






> 
>been caused by your "tuning" and you should come fix it for 






> 
>free.






> 
>    Oh sure, you can say, "I have a $xx minimum billing for 






> 
>service calls," but then you lose the customer and any referrals 






> 
>from them.






> 
>    I've even done 12 hours' extra labor on a large 






> 
>reconditioning job to get rid of problems they implied were my 






> 
>fault, even though these things were not in the job estimate, 






> 
>but from their tone of voice and attitude you can tell that it's 






> 
>either fix everything for free or get into a big argument, much 






> 
>unpleasantness, and maybe even a lawsuit.






> 
>    But of course you can't deduct the value of your time on 






> 
>your tax return, since the IRS doesn't see your time as being 






> 
>worth anything.






> 
>    --David Nereson, RPT 






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
> 



>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: mkurta1 at comcast.net
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:33:38 -0600
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for

>    David, I can see both sides of that question-to charge or not to charge?







> 
>My thought is that the customer will remember how you handled their callback







> 
>far longer than the original tuning you did, good or bad.  Positive public 






> 
>relations are hard to come by, and is the stuff that makes you a hero in 






> 
>their eyes.  Here is an opportunity to gain a chunk,  and as you pointed 






> 
>out, they will tell others.






> 
>    By the same token there is a line over which one is taken advantage of 






> 
>and this judgement should be made on a case by case basis.  We should not be







> 
>considered doormats.  However in my experience those times are really rare. 






> 
>We choose to be members of a SERVICE industry, and how we handle customer 






> 
>concerns is up to us.






> 
>    Have you noticed how we are now greeted in stores lately, and how 






> 
>friendly those folks are?  Also it seems much easier to return an item 






> 
>nowadays from just awhile ago.  This looks like a trend and it might be 






> 
>worthwhile for us to be aware of it and pay attention to our public 






> 
>relations too.






> 
>    Mike Kurta, RPT






> 
>    Chicago chapter 






> 
> 






> 
> 



>--Forwarded Message Attachment--
>From: AlliedPianoCraft at hotmail.com
>To: pianotech at ptg.org
>Date: Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:47:31 -0500
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for

>William, Mike, great thoughtful answers.






> 
> 






> 
>David............If you felt abused, you probably were.






> 
> 






> 
>Al






> 
> 






> 
> 






> 
>--------------------------------------------------






> 
>From: "Mike Kurta" <mkurta1 at comcast.net>






> 
>Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 8:33 AM






> 
>To: <pianotech at ptg.org>






> 
>Subject: Re: [pianotech] call-backs you can't charge for






> 
> 






> 
>>    David, I can see both sides of that question-to charge or not to 






> 
>> charge? My thought is that the customer will remember how you handled 






> 
>> their callback far longer than the original tuning you did, good or bad. 






> 
>> Positive public relations are hard to come by, and is the stuff that makes







> 
>> you a hero in their eyes.  Here is an opportunity to gain a chunk,  and as







> 
>> you pointed out, they will tell others.






> 
>>    By the same token there is a line over which one is taken advantage of 






> 
>> and this judgement should be made on a case by case basis.  We should not 






> 
>> be considered doormats.  However in my experience those times are really 






> 
>> rare. We choose to be members of a SERVICE industry, and how we handle 






> 
>> customer concerns is up to us.






> 
>>    Have you noticed how we are now greeted in stores lately, and how 






> 
>> friendly those folks are?  Also it seems much easier to return an item 






> 
>> nowadays from just awhile ago.  This looks like a trend and it might be 






> 
>> worthwhile for us to be aware of it and pay attention to our public 






> 
>> relations too.






> 
>>    Mike Kurta, RPT






> 
>>    Chicago chapter






> 
>> 






> 
> 


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