Divorce

[Dan Eumurian]

James,

What a great attitude! May I recommend the book Hope for the Separated:
Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed, by Gary Chapman, © 1982, Moody Bible
Institute of Chicago/Moody Press? It should be available through
Christian bookstores. The son and daughter-in-law of a good friend of
mine are going through a divorce, and the book has reportedly been the
best thing in the situation. I shared (with permission) a chapter
entitled "What About the Children" with a couple of rallies of R-KIDS
(Remember Kids in Divorce Settlements). 

Marie and I have made it through 9 years, by God's grace, and have
learned a lot. Best wishes!!

Dan Eumurian, R.P.T.
1634 Barlow St.
La Crosse, WI 54601
(608) 78-TUNER

James Grebe wrote:
 
>         Hi All,
> My solution to this problem, going through this as we speak, is I just gave her all I had in love except for my truck, tools, computers, my theatre organ and clothes.  I feel much better doing this and starting from square one than I would trying to fight over all the stuff that I gave her out of love for her. 
>     In my opinion the stuff is hers including the money.  I have the
> best thing left; ie, the ability to work at a profession I love and
> create wealth once more again.  After 30 years, my beloved , now soon to be ex-wife will have all that is there to constantly remind her of my toil for her benefit and  m a y b e , later on she will change her mind about me and return, which would make me the happiest man on this earth .   
> This is how I am handling the pain.
>      "Tranquility Base"  now under construction
>                     ETA   April, 99
> James Grebe
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