Conference topic

[James Grebe]

Dear All,
I think a lot of you are missing the boat here.  I think the ones of you who
are not going through this think that we who are have not done something we
should have or did something we shouldn't have.  I think that you who aren't
going through this are just lucky,  This stuff can happen to anyone whether
you are doing the right thing or not.  Sometimes I think it is just fate.
Certainly, when I look back to see what I COULD Have done differently, I can
point to things that I  perceived as hurtful to me but I chose to overlook
them.  It is just a matter of when these things happen and the frame of mind
your spouse is in.  The book I just finished tells me that women keep a
running tally of things, mostly little , that add up over periods of time.
They can either choose to overlook shortcomings or proceed to get rid of
their spouse.  I could point out that the things she said that I hurt her
with I could produce a list just as long on things she did to me, but why?
They either still love you or they don't.  It is that simple.
            James Grebe
R.P.T. and M.P.T.
 from St. Louis
pianoman@inlink.com
                  Creator of:
 Handsome Hardwood Caster Cups
                  and
Practical   Piano    Benches
"Tranquility Base"
E.T.A.     April, 1999
-----Original Message-----
From: Wimblees@AOL.COM <Wimblees@AOL.COM>
To: pianotech@ptg.org <pianotech@ptg.org>
Date: Sunday, February 14, 1999 10:02 AM
Subject: Re: Conference topic


>In a message dated 2/13/99 4:20:35 PM !!!First Boot!!!,
nossaman@SOUTHWIND.NET
>writes:
>
><< Hmmm, maybe a sense of humor
> should be close to the top of the list at that.
>
>  Ron  >>
>
>A sense of humor, and not taking your self too seriously once in a while,
will
>help any relationship.
>
>Wim
>
>