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<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2>Alan,</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial size=2>I =
doubt that sending
the letter would do anything for either you or her. Her mind is =
already
made up. Perhaps she'll call you again and act totally
differently. Sometimes, the less said, the =
better.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial size=2>One =
point in your
letter, however, mentions that you are the only Guild
technician.....</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial size=2>Anyone =
can pay dues
and be a guild member. It becomes meaningful only after the tests =
to
become RPT have been passed. When advertising in this manner or in =
an ad,
it is important that guild status be included.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2>Ray</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005><FONT face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=125402323-21042005>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial =
size=2>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<BR>Ray T.
Bentley, RPT<BR>Registered Piano Tuner-Technician<BR>Alton, IL<BR><A
href="mailto:ray@bentley.net">ray@bentley.net</A><BR><A
href="http://www.ray.bentley.net/">www.ray.bentley.net</A></FONT></DIV>=
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align=left><FONT
face=Tahoma size=2>-----Original Message-----<BR><B>From:</B>
pianotech-bounces@ptg.org [mailto:pianotech-bounces@ptg.org] <B>On =
Behalf Of
</B>Alan<BR><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, April 21, 2005 5:29 =
PM<BR><B>To:</B>
'Pianotech'<BR><B>Subject:</B> Aaaaaaaarrrrrrgh!<BR><BR></FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005><SPAN
class=640172722-21042005><STRONG>(Had trouble with this message, if =
it posts
more than once, just zap. Sorry)</STRONG></SPAN></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005><SPAN
class=640172722-21042005></SPAN></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005><SPAN =
class=640172722-21042005></SPAN>Had
to happen sooner or later. Visit people who don't play much, tune =
annual. He's
nice. She was okay in past. She not home. Sit at piano. 20+ cents flat =
after
period of high humidity around here. Tell him it needs pitch =
correction. Work
on piano for 2 1/2 hours. She's now home, comes in as I'm trying to =
take a
little Story & Clarke wine out of the unisons. Scowl. "We have =
places to
go today! How much longer is this going to take?" Oh, says I, I'm just =
finishing up. "How much." Well it needed pitch correction, you =
see, blah
blah blah, so it's $140 today. </SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>[Insert sound of Banshee With =
Bellyache
here]</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>"Why, we haven't even moved that =
piano."
(Me: chuff, hrgmff, choke ...)</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005> {Caution Serious Rant =
Zone
Ahead} </SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>WHAT THE HELL IS IT WITH THIS =
'MOVING THE
PIANO CRAP'? EVERYONE KNOWS(!) THATS WHAT MAKES PIANOS NEED =
TUNING (puff
puff pant) DID THE GOVERNMENT USED TO PRINT THAT FACTOID(???!!!) ON =
CEREAL
BOXES OR WHAT? SEEMS MOST FOLKS DON'T KNOW A $#*%&* THING =
ELSE ABOUT
THEIR PIANO BUT IF YOU ROLL IT 3 INCHES, THAT'S WHEN YOU GOTTA CALL =
THE TUNER
(OR IF A KEY IS 'STICKING.') OTHER THAN THAT, IT CAN EASILY GO ANOTHER =
15
YEARS AND SOUNDS JUST BLOODY GREAT, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>"Last time you were here you =
only charged
me $50." No, Ma'am. It was $65 a couple of years ago. Now it's $80 =
plus you
needed the pitch raise. </SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>Tried to explain. She wrote a =
check. I
said, just pay me what you think it's worth. She paid the full
amount.</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>She won't be using me next time. =
That's
okay. She will undoubtedly tell everyone in her church--and it's =
a small
community here--and anyone else who'll listen that I am a rotten crook =
and I
charge $140 to tune a piano--that hasn't even been moved! That's not =
okay.
Damn.</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>I never raised my =
voice.</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>I've <SPAN
class=140591922-21042005> included </SPAN> the letter I've =
prepared
to send her<SPAN class=140591922-21042005> , below</SPAN>. =
Before I seal
it and send it, if any of you kind folks want to look it over and tell =
me I'm
right on, crazy, or both, I'd appreciate it. All comments welcome. =
Maybe some
ideas for people with similar customer relations disasters are here, =
too
...</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=500441220-21042005> </SPAN></DIV>
<DIV align=left>Alan R. Barnard</DIV>
<DIV align=left><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>Trying to Thicken =
My Skin
Without Thickening My Skull in </SPAN>Salem, MO</DIV>
<DIV align=left><SPAN class=500441220-21042005>(Man, that's just =
plain thick!
Thorry.)</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV><FONT face=Arial>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">Dear
Friends:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">I am very upset =
about our
discussion today. These are my thoughts and feelings =
…<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">First and foremost: =
If I have
offended you in any way, whatsoever, I do truly apologize and ask your =
forgiveness. Friendship and integrity mean everything in the world to =
me and
business …. is only business.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">Jeanne, you seemed =
upset with
me from the moment I said hello and certainly before the fee was =
discussed. I
didn’t understand that.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">I’ve attached =
a copy of
</SPAN><st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">info</SPAN></st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">rmation about =
tuning,
humidity, pitch raises, etc., in the interest of understanding. Your =
piano was
21 percent flat today, which I pointed out to Ron. He heard how much I =
was
raising each string just to get it near pitch. Anything more than =
about 6 or 7
percent flat (or sharp, and less than 5 is better) is simply not =
tunable for
good, lasting results. If anything, with the high humidity of recent =
days, I
expected to find your piano a little sharp, or maybe a little flat (it =
has
been a whole year) but it was <I style="mso-bidi-font-style: =
normal">way</I>
off.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">Perhaps I should =
have
clarified fees with Ron before starting, but you had always handled =
our
business in the past and you are the player. So I just plunged in, =
doing what
the piano needed.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">Most people tune =
every 6
months in our climate, but usually a year doesn’t throw a piano =
so
much—although it will not sound very good. But some pianos are =
just more
reactive to humidity swings than others. No one could have
</SPAN><st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">don</SPAN></st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">e a straight tuning, =
today;
the pitch correction was absolutely essential. I wish you’d been =
home when I
arrived; maybe we’d have saved some grief. =
<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">You were right in =
remembering
that I charged less on previous occasions. My records show $65 tuning =
payments
on </SPAN><st1:date Year="2002" Day="11" Month="9"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">9/11/02</SPAN></st1:date><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> and =
</SPAN><st1:date
Year="2004" Day="27" Month="4"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">4/27/04</SPAN></st1:date><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">. Both were for =
straight,
near-pitch tunings, even though I had already raised my rates by April =
of last
year, I charged you the old amount—</SPAN><st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">don</SPAN></st1:PersonName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">’t remember =
why. My standard
tuning rate is now $80 but if gas prices remain so high, I will be =
raising it
a little or start charging for mileage and time on the
road.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">That’s the way =
Bottorf
Appliance charges: $40 per hour (including driving time to and from) =
and
$1<U><SUP>00</SUP></U> a mile.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> =
</SPAN>I
know because I routinely survey other professional services to make =
sure that
my fees are in line and fair. At their rate, a visit equivalent to =
mine,
today, would have run about the same as what I charged. Equivalent =
time on
auto repairs at Al West would have cost nearly $200 just for the labor =
(and
they won’t come to your house).<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">As I said, I’m =
not the
cheapest tuner in our area. In fact, if I heard that another person =
was
charging more than I, I would immediately raise my rates. I am the =
only Guild
technician between here, </SPAN><st1:City><st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Springfield</SPAN></st1:place></st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">,
</SPAN><st1:place><st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Columbia</SPAN></st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">, =
</SPAN><st1:State><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Arkansas</SPAN></st1:State></st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">, and
</SPAN><st1:City><st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">St.
Louis</SPAN></st1:place></st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">. That alone =
doesn’t guarantee
you top-notch service, but does demonstrate a person’s desire to =
be
professional, ethical, and to provide excellent, knowledgeable =
service. Also
it affords fantastic training and mentoring opportunities which I take =
every
advantage of.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">There are people out =
there who
will take your money to fiddle with your tuning pins. We call them =
“tooners.”
One such person, locally, uses a guitar tuner and has no =
understanding, at
all, about how pianos work or how to tune them, doesn’t =
understand tempered
tuning, inharminicity, or what to do if a key doesn’t play =
right. When
encountering pianos off-pitch like yours, this person either tunes and =
tunes—desperately trying to make it sound right—until they =
literally throw him
out, or tells them their “strings are shot” and they need =
a new
piano!<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">There is a fellow =
from
</SPAN><st1:City><st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Marshfield</SPAN></st1:place></st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> who tunes locally =
and has a
good reputation. And there is one in Rolla whom I have never met, but =
have
never heard anything bad about. </SPAN><st1:place><st1:PlaceName><SPAN =
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Second</SPAN></st1:PlaceName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> =
</SPAN><st1:PlaceName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Street</SPAN></st1:PlaceName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> =
</SPAN><st1:PlaceName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Music</SPAN></st1:PlaceName><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> =
</SPAN><st1:PlaceType><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Academy</SPAN></st1:PlaceType></st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> in
</SPAN><st1:City><st1:place><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne">Dixon</SPAN></st1:place></st1:City><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne"> has a lady who =
tunes, very
well I’m told. I’m not sure she comes this far south,
though.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">On the other hand, =
I’d like to
remain friends and, just perhaps, your tuner, too. I’m trying to =
build a
business, provide the best service I can, feed my family, behave =
honorably,
and make as many friends as I can. If I blew it, somehow, I’m
sorry.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: =
Souvienne"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 27.0pt right 6.5in"><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Souvienne">Very truly
yours,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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