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<B>From: </B>"Robin Blankenship" <itune@firstsaga.com><BR>
<B>Reply-To: </B>pianotech@ptg.org<BR>
<B>Date: </B>Thu, 14 Dec 2000 12:44:51 -0500<BR>
<B>To: </B><pianotech@ptg.org><BR>
<B>Subject: </B>Re: John 3:16 and Donald Duck on the Pianotech list.<=
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<BLOCKQUOTE><FONT SIZE="2">Dear Martin,<BR>
</FONT> <BR>
<FONT SIZE="2">So, let me get this straight: any time that someone shares t=
heir thoughts or feelings or beliefs, you feel "pressured" to acce=
pt them? Sad. <BR>
<BR>
<BR>
</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">No, that is not the case. I am a subscriber t=
o <U>a pianotech list</U> and I am/was willing to discuss piano related obje=
ctives.<BR>
I am willing to discuss and/or accept sound advice about pianos, and that i=
s on a neutral and free basis. I do not need to be converted, and that is th=
e difference.<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
<BR>
You do not understand the Christian's heart. <BR>
<BR>
</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">Oh but I sure do, all the relatives I have in=
this world are Dutch reformed.. so I really do know about it.<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
You can accept or reject totally. That is all up to you. As it is the piano=
tuner's desire to tune pianos, so it is the Christian's desire to share the=
promise and hope of the Gospel. That's all. <BR>
<BR>
</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">No that is not all, because, as I said, on th=
e piano tech list one would expect to 'give' or 'accept' piano advice. If Ch=
ristians feel the urge to preach and convert, that is ok with me, but outsid=
e my private sphere and outside the PIANO tech list. <BR>
Do YOU actually know what I am saying?<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
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You have free will. Accepting a free gift IS about the hardest thing there =
is to do.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica"> It depends... If you want to give me an oran=
ge for free, why should I reject?<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
God loves you. That is unchangeable. <BR>
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</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">Hey man! that is your projection! That is not=
a free gift, it is not nice, but it is a blunt, selfish and egotistic=
al projection of YOUR mind.<BR>
I would like to decide for MYSELF whether there is a god, and whether I nee=
d a god.<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
Go in peace.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">You too, and I mean it, but see.... YOU are b=
othering with YOUR god, where as I do not force anything upon you!<BR>
</FONT><FONT SIZE="2"><BR>
</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">And that makes ALL the difference.<BR>
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</FONT><BLOCKQUOTE><FONT FACE="Helvetica">Martin van Brussel<BR>
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<B>From: </B>vanbrussel <vanbrussel@euronet.nl><BR>
<B>Date: </B>Wed, 13 Dec 2000 22:53:25 +0100<BR>
<B>To: </B><DGPEAKE@aol.com><BR>
<B>Subject: </B>John 3:16 on the Pianotech list.<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><FONT SIZE="2">Christopher Witmer, in a recent post, quoted Joh=
n 3:16;<BR>
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<FONT SIZE="2">"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begot=
ten Son, that<BR>
whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For<BR=
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God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that<BR>
the world through Him might be saved." -- John 3:16-17<BR>
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<FONT FACE="Helvetica">And then (another pianotech subscriber) :<BR>
</FONT><BR>
W<FONT SIZE="2">hy does this upset you so much? Are you under conviction? R=
ead the verse <BR>
again, insert your name instead of "the world" and see how it app=
lies to your <BR>
life. <BR>
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<FONT FACE="Helvetica">Well Sir / Madam,<BR>
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I will try to explain to you why, yes.... it bothers me :<BR>
<BR>
In this opening sentence actually lies the cause and the answer (of my bein=
g bothered):<BR>
<BR>
In the first place, I thought I am/was a subscriber to a so called 'pianote=
ch list', a forum for piano technicians (and not specificly 'religious only'=
piano technicians).<BR>
When I subscribed, I did so, because it said nowhere that one had to be a p=
iano tech AND be a member of any religion or church.<BR>
<BR>
By getting e-mail on that very pianotech list with religious material  =
;like, :<BR>
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quote :<BR>
</FONT><BR>
"<FONT SIZE="2">For God so loved the world that He gave His only begot=
ten Son, that <BR>
whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For <B=
R>
God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that <BR>
the world through Him might be saved." -- John 3:16-17 "<BR>
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unquote.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT FACE="Helvetica">I am puzzled and annoyed.<BR>
<BR>
Why puzzled? <BR>
Because, as I said before, I wanted to be a subscriber to a 'pianotech rela=
ted' list without sermons or any kind of religious influence.<BR>
<BR>
And why annoyed?<BR>
Because I feel pressured to accept YOUR vision, YOUR way of living, YOUR ph=
ilosophy.<BR>
<BR>
You probably did not ask yourself (in this case) whether I had the WISH and=
NEED to accept YOUR way, YOUR phantasies.<BR>
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Furthermore:<BR>
<BR>
Suppose I am a believer in 'Deity' Donald Duck...(and please, do take my wo=
rds seriously)<BR>
How would YOU personally react to my asking you to accept 'HIS' (Donald Duc=
k's words? How would YOU personally react to my asking you to "insert y=
our name instead of "the world" and see how it applies to your lif=
e" ("<FONT SIZE="2">For God so loved the world that He gave His on=
ly begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eve=
rlasting life. )</FONT>. <BR>
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You would probably feel very much insulted and you would considder it blasf=
emy (and on top of that....on the pianotech list!)<BR>
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So, 'my point' is :<BR>
<BR>
Maybe I believe in Donald Duck?<BR>
Maybe I believe in Allah?<BR>
Maybe I believe in Buddha?<BR>
Maybe I believe in the Thora?<BR>
Maybe I believe NOTHING?<BR>
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I <<<< try to have respect for others by (on a public for=
um like the pianotech list) not openly push forward MY religious believe or =
opinion.<BR>
If I would do so anyway, it would actually show my contempt for the ideas o=
f other persons, my personal criticism of what another human being might fee=
l privately in relation to religion, philosophy, or whatever way of life.<BR=
>
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I did never want to write this letter in the first place, it did not even c=
ome up into my mind!<BR>
It shows, that by provoking subscribers of this list with YOUR religious id=
eas, you FORCE and BOTHER other persons with something private THEY never as=
ked for.<BR>
<BR>
And that is exactly what I have against anybody, who forces his will upon m=
e...and I don't care whether it is political, religious, or Donald Duck!<BR>
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May 'any' force be with you anyway.........because I wish no harm upon you =
and forgive you.<BR>
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I just wanted to make this clear!<BR>
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<BR>
Martin<BR>
van<BR>
Brussel<BR>
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PS.<BR>
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As I am still a subscriber to the Pianotech list, and as this all came into=
the world because a religious subscriber of said list wanted his personal r=
eligious opinion in public, I feel it necessary to make a statement (I will =
however not disclose your personal name, out of respect).<BR>
If other religious subscribers (on the list) then find it necessary to use =
the pianotech list as a battleground for their personal pyilosophical<BR>
beliefs, I will happily unsubscribe and switch over to a more neutral terri=
tory.<BR>
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At least <B><U>I</U></B> know where <B><U>I</U></B> stand then.<BR>
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