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<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>But what do you do about the techs like in Jon's
illustration (or worse) that ARE in the Guild? While I agree with your
principles, life doesn't always work that way. So, how do we balance what
to say and definitely what not to say when we are in the customer's home
confronted by the piano that Mr. HaventacluewhatImdoingbutImmakingbigbucks Guild
member has mutilated?</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Debbie Legg</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A title=deanmay@pianorebuilders.com
href="mailto:deanmay@pianorebuilders.com">Dean May</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">-snip-</DIV>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face=Arial color=navy size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I in no way mean to
be defending the work of the guy in Jon’s illustration. I’m just saying that
there are many out there like the guy who worked on my piano who are going to
continue to stay away from the guild if we maintain an image of snobbery and
condescension. And calling people names only builds the walls higher. I see no
upside. Shaming people will not cause them to see the light. It will only make
those on the fringes (many of them reading this list) to continue staying away
from full engagement, because they don’t have the confidence and they
certainly don’t want to be called names. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face=Arial color=navy size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Let’s try to build
bridges, not widen chasms.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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