<HTML><FONT FACE=arial,helvetica><FONT SIZE=2> Several weeks a=
go, a tennis pal and I were talking about what era we'd live in, given the c=
hoice. I immediately chose the World War II era, with all of the drama, u=
ncertainty, patriotism, swing music, ships coming back into port, epic battl=
es, world travel, and ultimate victory. The images we all woke up to Tuesday=
morning pounded into me how horribly foolish my choice would have been. =
I had forgotten certain parts, such as women just a few years older than =
my own daughter losing boyfriends, brothers, husbands and fathers. Someho=
w the old war movies seemed to leave out the aftermath, the clean-up, the co=
unting, and the sorrow.
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<BR> My buddy called me this afternoon, and told me, "Well, looks=
like you got your wish now." I fear that there is truth in what he said.=
War is about killing people and breaking things, and after Tuesday, w=
e all hoped we'd seen enough. I'm afraid that there is some ugly work ahe=
ad for America, but this country has yet to shrink from the principles upon =
which it was founded.
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<BR> I think about the generation that I thought I would have cho=
sen, what has come to be known as "The Greatest Generation." You know them. =
This was the generation of my parents, and Cliff and Sandy, and Dale and =
Brett's parents, who didn't choose to live through World War II, they were t=
hrown into it. I've wondered why I admire so many of them; their characte=
r, their moral conviction, their quiet patriotism. I once asked my old de=
ntist how he could hold his drill steady all day. He chuckled, and told m=
e, "After flying a B-17 over Germany 25 times, this is really kinda easy." =
They were baptized by fire, and made stronger for it. They haven't bee=
n thanked enough. I know that whatever lies ahead for this next "Greatest=
Generation," they will carry on with the courage, pride, and spirit that ha=
s made America a dream for some, and a target for others. I wish them God=
speed, but I also wish there were some other way....
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<BR> On Tuesday morning we had a big chunk of our humanity ripped=
out from under us. We've been forced to watch shocking inhumanity follow=
ed by heroism beyond measure. As we come to grips with these events, it m=
ight be worthwhile to start working overtime to put the little pieces of hum=
anity back into our lives.
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<BR> Smile at people, talk to them. If you're in line at Starb=
ucks, buy a cup for the guy behind you, and ask how he's doing. Shake a l=
ot of hands. Some people need to talk, listen to them. If somebody cut=
s you off on the road, give him the "Don't Worry About It" wave. Make the co=
rny little jokes we all make. Write letters, pick up the phone. And fo=
r God's sake, sit down with your kids and tell them how special and loved th=
ey are. Let's work overtime at the little things for a while.
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<BR>Take care, all, and may God Bless
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<BR>Dan Dannenfelser
<BR>PTG Associate
<BR>Sacramento, CA
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