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s,
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<BR>Has this or something like it happened to you? I had just gotten m=
y 3 year old to sleep last night and was about to nod off when my phone rang=
. I glanced at the clock and it was almost 10:30. I picked it up=
, and a man stated his name, and said that I'd been out to his house last we=
ek and tuned his piano. I remembered him, and I remembered his demandi=
ng nature.
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<BR>He said that the teacher had been to his house and had played the piano.=
She said that the bass was out of tune. Now this doesn't surpri=
se me a bit. It was a pitch raise of gargantuan proportions and a tuni=
ng. 2 hours worth of work, and I didn't charge him for the pitch raise=
, because he was a new customer. I did warn him that the next time he'=
d pay. The piano is approximately 5 years old, and if had ever been tu=
ned in his house I'd be surprised. Normally when I pitch raise a piano=
, it's pretty stable, as long as it was stabilized at one point in it's life=
. That was certainly not the case here.
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<BR>In my dazed state, I stated that I'd come out(today) and check it out. &=
nbsp;He was extremely rude, and acted as if I'd done something wrong. =
My first reaction was to make it better so that the customer--and his teache=
r, who'd recommended me--were no longer disgruntled. I thought about i=
t for awhile, and realized that I'd done nothing wrong, and had indeed given=
him far more than he paid for. I called him back and left him a polit=
e message to that effect on his work phone, which he should pick up today. &=
nbsp;I pointed out that I'd do it for free this time, but that I wasn't the =
one who let the piano go untuned for so long.
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<BR>Any advice on possible responses to this sort of thing?
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<BR>This type of stuff really rankles me. I guess the lesson here is t=
o not take it too personally. Kinda hard to do sometimes when you're t=
he whole show.
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<BR>Thanks for reading.
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<BR>Dave Stahl
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