John writes: << What should you do now? The deed is done. If she ever asks, come clean. If not, just let that sleeping dog lie. << I must disagree. This is where skeletons in the closet come from. It is possible that she will find out about this and say nothing to you, but plenty to others. >>There's no reason to make her feel bad in her present situation to assuage your feelings of guilt. But you have learned the lesson. And, as a "newbie", so have I, without having to experience it personally-and for that, I thank you. >> Ah, 30 years ago, I may have had the same idea, but not now. You can't un-ring a bell, and it is next to impossible to erase a blot on your name, which is what you will have if she finds out first. If you let it ride, this is going to hang in your conscience for a long, long, time. The piano hasn't been made that is worth allowing the public to believe that one is a shyster, warranted or not. I suggest that you tell the customer that you may have made an ethical mistake, offer to swap the piano for the one that she ultimately got, refund any monetary difference, pay the moving, and apologize. I don't know of any other way to guarantee your reputation. Ultimately, our reputation is the only employment security we have. Regards, Ed Foote RPT http://www.uk-piano.org/edfoote/index.html www.uk-piano.org/edfoote/well_tempered_piano.html
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