Del, While I agree with you that the customer hired you to tune her piano, I have also found many times over the years that they hired me to tune their piano when they had a need other than just tuning. Like the lady last week whose 50-year old husband died suddenly two months ago--just before his family heirloom Chickering grand was returned from restoration. She really needed to talk with _someone_ about the piano--and her husband. One time I arrived at the home of the man who invented the gold CD. When he led me to the piano, I remarked about what a nice Yamaha he had. He answered "Yeah, BUT!" and slapped the keys in the top octave. After some discussion it turned out that all he could hear was the woody sound. When I told him that I heard tones there and asked him if any of his friends or family have suggested that he might have some hearing loss, he admitted that his daughter was after him to get hearing aids because he couldn't hear his grandchildren. I had the distinct impression he was relieved to have someone outside of the family circle, who is someone who understands about sound, suggest that he have his hearing checked. Diane Diane Hofstetter Customer Complaint on Tuning Delwin D Fandrich fandrich at pianobuilders.com said: At some point, Terry, you have to rely on your own judgment and be willing to override that of Ms. X. If the piano is well tuned then it is well tuned regardless of what Ms. X thinks. If the piano really does sound horrible for reasons other than tuning then Ms. X needs to be so informed. And, having lived through this experience more than once or twice, I'll also say that if Ms. X's piano sounds horrible because Ms. X's hearing is shot she also needs to be told about that. These are most often no-win situations. If you try to accept responsibility for Ms. X's hearing difficulties you will still lose. In all likelihood Ms. X already knows her hearing is shot but she may still be resisting acceptance. But that is not your responsibility. Your responsibility is to be sure the piano is well tuned (that is what she hired you to do) and to be sure she understands the condition and capability of her piano. At least to the extent that she is able and willing to understand such. Del
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