Hi Ron, I just wrap a strip of leather around the nut before I attack it with the visegrips or channellock pliers. It's not foolproof, but it helps. Let's face it - we're trying unscrew a tight, soft piece of metal with a hard steel tool and lots of force. I think the only way to restore it to pristine condition would be to replace it, if that's possible.
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