Dear List,
My apologies. I should have sent "..age" separately. I thought of
doing so but decided to 'list' it because I wished for no one to
experience the embarrassment I did when I thoughtlessly use the phrase
in conversation with a black person who was from the south. He
proceeded to 'educate' me in no uncertain terms. I, fortunately, did
not loose a friend but it was close.
I grew up in southern New Mexico where many phrases were used that were
and are racist, anti-Semitic and chauvinistic. Moving from a town of
3500 to New York City I learned quickly what was and what was not
acceptable, but the "...age" reference was by far the most
'educational'.
My apologies to the list but I am unrepentant in considering the remark
racist. I will endeavor to be more sensitive in the future.
Newton J. Hunt
nhunt@jagat.com
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